It seems in today’s world the two-income family is a necessity and not a choice. Unfortunately for most of us that means we have to make difficult decisions regarding our children.
We have to make the choices related to their care. For some of us there is not a choice at all – we must do what we have to in order to survive….so the decisions are made for us. The couple may find that working opposite shifts provides the opportunity to keep the children out of daycare and with at least one parent at all times.
For others we have the advantage of a family member that is willing to assist with the chores and responsibilities of childcare. Others of us will find that daycare is the best option for them.
But those that can afford the luxury of a nanny seem to have the best of both worlds. They are able to work in order to provide the income needed as well as be assured that the children are being well-cared for.
So how do you determine what is best for you? Start by determining what your options are. Obviously there are costs associated with daycares and nannies, and there may be costs involved with family members assisting with the responsibilities as well.
Consider how much you can afford. Perhaps it is possible for you or your spouse to work part-time instead of full. After you know exactly what it is that you can afford then you can make some educated decisions related to the matter.
So what do you look for in a good day care? Check the list below: • Check out the staff to child ratio…for small children it should be 1 to 3-5 and for older children, 1 to 7-10 older children • There should be a separation of the older children from the younger ones…this can help to cut down on the spread of viruses, etc. as well as it simply tends to make sense that older children will want to be involved in activities not suited for younger children • Carefully review any policies, rules, or procedures and get a written copy • Explore the required staff training • Consider the safety aspects related to the building and the playground
When looking for a nanny one should keep in mind that his/her safety training is of primary concern. A background in early childhood development is a great foundation for this occupation. Begin with a trial period of from a few days to perhaps 2 – 4 weeks. During this time pay close attention to your child’s reaction to the nanny. Consider if she is creative with solutions to problems and issues. Your nanny should make an effort to stay connected with you…this might mean writing notes or making phone calls or just a verbal update. But it should be done consistently. Your child’s room should be clean as well as your child. Accidents, if any should be rare.
